Learned

After every setback, we learned and grow.

Whatever we read or learn in book are just a start. A base to built our character/attitude based on "popular/traditional" noble believe/righteous.

The chinese saying goes, 1 type of rice raise 100 types of MAN. Everyone think differently. What we believe in our younger days might not be what we preach now. To me, there is no right or wrong(who is there to say who is right?). Just different opinion(everyone is entitled to it own opinion) at different period of time.

Some changed their attitude fast as more setbacks are encountered. Some live peacefully "ever after".

Look outside the "box"? Is to break away from traditional believe. How many can manage to do this?

I have grow over time. I have begin to understand why my family/relatives acting in a way that i have a hard time accepting it during my younger days. Now that i have break through, i am amuse of my foolishness.